Have you ever felt like you “missed your blessing”? Sometimes when I look back in past seasons of my life, I often wonder… had I been where I am now back then how things might have been different. There are scenarios and situations in the past where I could have been much “better off” had I responded or reacted with the wisdom and maturity that I now have. I possibly “missed out” on God’s best for me. Maybe I would have made better decisions.
The truth is, even though I wish some things could have been different, I needed things to be exactly as they were then in order to become who I am today and who I will be tomorrow. In fact, I didn’t really “miss out” on anything. Anything that’s meant to be will be. The timing might shift but it will happen.
The right thing at the wrong time is still the wrong thing. In other words, our level of maturity determines what we can handle at any given time. Sometimes a good thing shows up but we’re not mature enough to receive it. Hindsight is really 20/20 because when we step into maturity everything becomes clear and the beauty of things we threw away or wrote off in the past is unveiled.
But… Did I miss it? Is it too late? Truthfully… No. If it’s meant to be, everything will align perfectly. There are so many things that we often take the long way to get to because the stall was to make sure that our maturity was at the level it needed to be to handle the beautiful things in our life blueprint. Destiny is too valuable, it’s fragile, and the Author (God) will not place it in our hands if there’s still a chance that we might break it. Maturity establishes trust and when we can be trusted, what’s meant to be will be.
Love & Blessings,